Private household staffing

Private household placement expertise

Private household staffing extends beyond finding "a house manager." It requires identifying professionals who can navigate the principal's complete life—managing estate operations, coordinating travel logistics, interfacing with household staff and vendors, and handling personal matters with absolute discretion.

The candidates we place come from estate management, luxury hospitality, and private household backgrounds. They understand the standards expected in UHNW environments and possess the adaptability required when household needs evolve. Most importantly, they operate with the discretion necessary when supporting principals whose privacy is paramount.

Our process protects confidentiality at every stage while ensuring candidates are thoroughly vetted for both technical competence and cultural compatibility with your household environment.

Roles we place



Personal Assistant

Calendar management, travel coordination, personal projects, and life logistics for UHNW individuals. Personal assistants operate as an extension of the principal across both personal and professional domains.


Private Household Assistant

Versatile support across residence operations, travel logistics, family coordination, and personal needs. These professionals adapt to household rhythms whether seasonal, travel-intensive, or structured around complex family schedules.


Household Executive Assistant

Hybrid roles combining household management with personal and professional support. These positions require equal fluency in estate operations and executive-level administrative excellence.


House Manager

Single-property operations including staff supervision, vendor management, household systems, and daily residence management. House managers ensure seamless household functioning regardless of the principal's presence.


Estate Manager

Oversight of multiple properties including vendor relationships, staff coordination, property maintenance, and household operations. Estate managers serve as the principal's representative across all residential properties.

What distinguishes
our approach?

CONFIDENTIAL PROCESS
Every aspect of our engagement is designed to protect your privacy—from initial consultation through candidate presentation and reference verification.

HOUSEHOLD FLUENCY
We understand private service standards and identify candidates who possess both technical competence and the cultural sophistication required in UHNW environments.

COMPENSATION EXPERTISE
We provide market intelligence that reflects current private household compensation ranges, benefits expectations, and what attracts exceptional talent in your specific market.

SELECTIVE PRESENTATION
We present candidates who have been vetted comprehensively, ensuring that everyone you meet represents a viable placement option rather than requiring you to screen broadly.

Our placement process

Confidential consultation

We discuss your household structure, staffing ecosystem, personal preferences, and placement parameters in complete confidence. This includes understanding what defines success beyond the technical job description.

Market intelligence

We share current compensation data, benefits structures, and candidate availability specific to your requirements and location. This ensures appropriate positioning before candidate engagement.

Candidate presentation

We present 4-6 candidates who align with your household needs, having been thoroughly vetted for experience, compatibility, and discretion. Our presentations facilitate informed decisions about who to interview.


Reference verification

We conduct comprehensive reference checks while maintaining absolute confidentiality about your household. This includes verification of technical skills, cultural fit indicators, and discretion history.

Multi-property coordination:
Principal requiring seamless operations across seasonal residences with staff oversight and vendor management

Hybrid household-executive roles:
Family needing both household management and executive assistant support in an integrated position

Complex travel logistics:
UHNW individual requiring personal assistant capable of extensive travel coordination and sophisticated life management

Estate management transition:
Growing household staff team requiring experienced estate manager to establish systems and oversee operations

Interim coverage:
Seasonal residence requiring compatible temporary or permanent household support during transitions

Placement scenarios we navigate

Success indicators


A successful private household placement demonstrates

Invisible management of household complexity across properties, staff, vendors, and logistics

Creation of a Household Manual that details systems and practices with ongoing updates and contact information

Graceful handling of last-minute changes, guest coordination, and unexpected requirements

Ongoing budgeting and
cost sensitivity

Seamless coordination with the principal's professional team, family members, and existing household staff

Minimizing conflict among staff and intervening when necessary

Systematic oversight of household operations including inventory, maintenance schedules, and vendor relationships

Absolute discretion regarding family matters, financial information, and personal preferences

Why principals
choose Lambent

Private household staffing requires understanding nuances that extend beyond traditional corporate placement. We recognize that household roles demand technical excellence, cultural sophistication, and personal compatibility in equal measure.

Our candidates are prepared for the realities of private household work—they understand that standards are exacting, that flexibility is required, and that discretion is absolute. They won't flinch at managing multiple properties, coordinating with existing staff, or integrating personal and professional obligations seamlessly.

We think about placement success in terms of years, not months. Our vetting process reflects that perspective, ensuring that compatibility factors receive the same attention as technical qualifications.